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Dating Advice & Matchmaking Insights


Will the real you please stand up? (Why you shouldn’t mask your quirks when dating)
Reason #99765 I love offline dating: there’s no room for phoniness and fake photos. Dating IRL is the perfect way to bring your REAL self to the dating game.
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What ‘You Me Her’ can teach us about getting our needs met
You Me Her tells the story of Jack and Emma Trakarsky, a married couple pushing 40 with a life most people would envy: aspirational jobs and a gorgeous house in Portland, Oregon.
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Online Dating is Killing Romance
Ahhh, romance. That sweet, sweet feeling you get when they even so much as glance at you with their perfect eyes.
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How to Own What You Want
If I had a pound for every time I heard ‘but Asa, I don’t know what I want’ – I would be a very rich woman.
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It’s ok to… date more than one person at once
My mission is to empower men and women to let go of guilt and shame around dating and sex.
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Can eye-contact make you fall in love?
If eyes really are the window to the soul, can gazing into them help speed up a soul-to-soul connection?
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It’s ok to… be scared of finding love
You say you want love, but when it comes knocking, your defences go straight up. Sound familiar?
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What Fleabag can teach us about attraction
Fleabag is no more and, if you’re anything like me, you are completely bereft. Here’s my take on the BBC show that seemed to be about sex
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10 Original Date Ideas in London
There’s no excuse for a boring date night in London. A city crammed with exciting events, from dining in the dark to having a Butler in the park
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It’s ok to… date sober
There’s no doubt about it: sobriety has earned a new kind of cool. If you’re tired of hangovers and drunken sex, maybe now is the time to join the growing numbers of people going sober as the wellness and lifestyle choice. You must have noticed people all over London shunning nights out at the local for healthy smoothies, hangover-free brunches and wellness retreats? For 30-somethings today, it’s become somewhat of a faux pas to drink. While our parents’ generation consider
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Can the 5 Love Languages really help your love life?
According to relationship counsellor Gary D. Chapman, we could all be better partners if we familiarised ourselves with the five “love languages”.
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