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Dating Advice & Matchmaking Insights


Dating When You're Kinky: 3 Tips for Exploring BDSM With New Partners
Whether you’re looking for someone into a specific kink, or you’re curious about seeking new kinky experiences.
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4 Signs You’re Talking to The Right Person
How do you tell if someone online is worth investing your time in? Especially given that it might be a while before you can really put your feelings to the test together?
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How To Stop Overthinking Everything While Dating
Whether you are a few dates in or are in the exciting early phase of dating, overthinking and overanalysing can create a lot of unnecessary drama.
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How Sexual Assertiveness Will Bring You the Meaningful Connections You Crave
For the majority of us, talking about the intricacies of our sexual desires is unfamiliar territory.
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5 Signs You’re Sexually Compatible
Dating and relationship coach and matchmaker, Tailor Matched, is all about helping people find a partner they’re compatible with – in and out of the bedroom.
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What We Can Learn from Tantric Sex
Tantra offers a whole new (ancient) way of being in sexual connection, that allows for deeper levels of feeling, sensation, and suuuper pleasurable energy.
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Could an Open Relationship Be Right for You?
As a dating and relationship coach, this subject has been coming up more and more in conversations with clients and friends.
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A Guide to Edging for Extra Intense Orgasms
Think you know everything there is to know about masturbation? Think again! Dating coach, matchmaker and founder of Tailor Matched, Asa Baav says experimentation is essential for a healthy sex life.
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Facing The Unknown: How To Deal with Uncertainty in Dating
If 2020 has taught us anything, it’s how to get comfortable with uncertainty (or be anxious 24/7).
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How to Own Your Sexual Preferences + Desires While Dating
The world of dating has changed dramatically in just the last 5 years. The advent of a gazillion dating apps, more liberal attitudes to sexuality, and a more fluid society generally mean our choices have expanded exponentially.
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How To Talk About Sex + Pleasure: 3 Lessons from The Kink Community
As a monthly contributor to Killing Kittens our founder Asa Baav dives into your what we can learn from the Kink community in this month's blog.
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8 Ways to Make Online Dating Work for You in The Age Of Coronavirus
How do we persevere with dating as the global pandemic turns our lives upside down? Use quarantine as an opportunity to relearn how to date and discover how to have sex without touching. Here’s my guide to online dating during the Coronavirus.
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Sex vs Intimacy: Which are you looking for?
Are sex and intimacy different things? Can you have one without the other? Or does one lead to another?
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Why Sexual Compatibility Matters
I often hear people say, “but, I don’t have an extreme fetish, I am quite vanilla in bed. Can I still sign up?”
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It’s ok to… date sober
There’s no doubt about it: sobriety has earned a new kind of cool. If you’re tired of hangovers and drunken sex, maybe now is the time to join the growing numbers of people going sober as the wellness and lifestyle choice. You must have noticed people all over London shunning nights out at the local for healthy smoothies, hangover-free brunches and wellness retreats? For 30-somethings today, it’s become somewhat of a faux pas to drink. While our parents’ generation consider
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Science doesn’t lie: women need 19 minutes of foreplay
Yes, there are those rare occasions when you and your lover go from cold to very, very hot in 60 seconds, but let’s be real – rushing is rarely a good idea
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